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	<title>Dr. Kathleen Miller Talks Performance Management: Recent Comments</title>
	<updated>2008-07-24T16:26:10Z</updated>
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		<title>Comment on Create an Awesome Virtual Team</title>
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		<author>
			<name>Pat  Williams</name>
			<uri>http://www.none.com</uri>
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		<updated>2008-04-14T09:47:14Z</updated>
		<published>2008-04-14T06:33:40Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[I liked your site.]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Hearing the Hard Messages</title>
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		<id>tag:humancapitoolsblog.com,2007-06-02:379577</id>
		<author>
			<name>Gary Cokins</name>
			<uri>http://Blogs.sas.com/cokins</uri>
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		<updated>2007-06-02T22:03:26Z</updated>
		<published>2007-06-02T19:34:16Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[Kathleen,<br /> <br />I fully agree with your messages. I have been in the Performance Management field for over three decades. 90% of success is change management and behavior modification, and 10% is the math and systems. But people tend to reverse those.<br /> <br />I recently wrote a monthly column in <a href="http://www.dmreview.com">www.dmreview.com</a> on this topic. You can search on my name there. I welcome further dialog.<br /> <br />Gary Cokins, SAS<br /> <a href="http://Blogs.sas.com/cokins">http://Blogs.sas.com/cokins</a>]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Hearing the Hard Messages</title>
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		<id>tag:humancapitoolsblog.com,2007-05-13:355663</id>
		<author>
			<name>Jerome Alexander</name>
			<uri>http://thecorporatecynic.wordpress.com</uri>
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		<updated>2007-05-13T20:45:51Z</updated>
		<published>2007-05-13T20:45:51Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[I hate to sound a cynic Joe but over the years I've kind of developed a "sixth sense" about these things.  I've always tried to deny the handwriting on the wall as well.  Sometimes it's better to get while the getting's good.]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Hearing the Hard Messages</title>
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		<author>
			<name>Joe O'Keefe</name>
			<uri>http://www.rms.biz</uri>
		</author>
		<updated>2007-05-08T11:30:32Z</updated>
		<published>2007-05-08T09:17:13Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[This is happened to me repeatedly recently. Over the past few weeks everything I have been doing successfully for years has come under fire. I am always looking to improve but a lot of the work I do is subjective in its finished state. I work outside the office where the main team resides and I am trying to not get defensive but I can't help feel that the perception of the work has changed because other members of the team are pleading their agendas and I am not there in person to plead mine. I do not rest on my laurels and always strive to do remarkable work, not just good work.<br /> <br />I am trying to see the feedback as a "gift" but maybe the gift is an undeniable feeling it is time for me to move on to another company. I say this not in anger but the dynamic has changed dramatically over the past few months and this shift has culminated in the conversations of the past few weeks that have me feeling a little less than confident.]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Providing Feedback to Managers</title>
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		<id>tag:humancapitoolsblog.com,2007-04-28:336835</id>
		<author>
			<name>Joe O'Keefe</name>
			<uri>http://www.rms.biz</uri>
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		<updated>2007-04-28T10:41:08Z</updated>
		<published>2007-04-28T04:12:20Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[This just happened to me on Friday (4/27/07) with a crueler twist.<br /> <br />I created a very simple concept for an email blast. My supervisor took it and wanted to drive people to our website rather than just keep it simple with a "this product is here and this is how you get it" theme. The supervisor cut out the point in my draft that said, "Contact so-and-so to get the product". Well, the first response to my ininital email blast was, "who do I contact and how do I get the product?". When I pointed this out to the supervisor, rather than a, "hey, we needed to keep that in there", the response was, "email the potential client back and tell him how to get it".<br /> <br />Very discouraging but I sure it happens all of the time in companies large and small. No real resolution, just focusing on something else or blaming some other aspect.]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Providing Feedback to Managers</title>
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		<id>tag:humancapitoolsblog.com,2007-04-25:334242</id>
		<author>
			<name>Jerome Alexander</name>
			<uri>http://thecorporatecynic.wordpress.com</uri>
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		<updated>2007-04-25T21:46:37Z</updated>
		<published>2007-04-25T20:37:59Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[Here's what I have seen many times in the past:<br /> <br />Manager,"Look, here's what you need to do. They need this by Thursday!" <br />Subordinate,"Have you considered....?"<br />Manager,"I don't have time to debate the issue. Just get it done."<br />Subordinate, "Sure but...."<br />Manager,"But nothing. I have your buy-in don't I?"<br />Subordinate, "Buy-in? I don't think..."<br />Manager,"You're being paid for results."<br />Subordinate,"But..."<br />Manager,"Don't be part of the problem, be part of the solution. Don't focus on what you can't do. Focus on what you can do." <br />Later when the plan fails or does not produce the desired results.<br />Manager,"I thought I had your buy-in."<br />Subordinate,"I tried to tell you..."<br />Manager,"Had you only been stronger in your views, we may have able to avoid this. You need to work on your communication skills."<br /> <br />Sounds funny but happens all the time.]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Providing Feedback to Managers</title>
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		<id>tag:humancapitoolsblog.com,2007-04-12:318795</id>
		<author>
			<name>Bob Gilbert</name>
			<uri>http://bobgilbertconsulting.com</uri>
		</author>
		<updated>2007-04-12T12:36:44Z</updated>
		<published>2007-04-12T01:11:55Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[The ability of a manager to listen to a subordinate disagreeing with the managers fix to a problem is a good measure of the manager. Consultants are in a different position when it comes to disagreeing than a subordinate. The manager ought to be asking for ideas BEFORE DECIDING ON A FIX. PERFORMANCE PROBLEMS ARE BEST SOLVED THROUGH THE HELP OF PEERS OF THE PERFRORMER.]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Providing Feedback to Managers</title>
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		<id>tag:humancapitoolsblog.com,2007-04-04:311855</id>
		<author>
			<name>Joe O'Keefe</name>
			<uri>http://www.rms.biz</uri>
		</author>
		<updated>2007-04-05T11:35:58Z</updated>
		<published>2007-04-04T23:19:39Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[This issue is my number one frustration. So many time my supervisor has a knee jerk reaction that is born of frustration over many other things. With this negative energy on the loose it is difficult to reign him back in. Sometimes, if I am rested, I can logically go through potential solutions to aid the problem. I need to do more in the way of explanation and preparation to discuss further solutions on a more consistent basis.<br /> <br />Great point, Kathy. Thank you!]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Acting on the Hard Messages</title>
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		<id>tag:humancapitoolsblog.com,2007-02-24:265276</id>
		<author>
			<name>Kathy Miller</name>
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		<updated>2007-02-24T12:13:10Z</updated>
		<published>2007-02-24T12:13:10Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[Readers,<br><br>Let me hear from you on this topic.  If this post is relevant to you, please comment.]]></content>
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		<title>Comment on Communicating the Hard Messages</title>
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		<id>tag:humancapitoolsblog.com,2007-02-24:265275</id>
		<author>
			<name>Kathy Miller</name>
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		<updated>2007-02-24T12:21:24Z</updated>
		<published>2007-02-24T12:10:12Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[What is it about this post that is striking a chord with so many readers? This post is consistently read by many people each week, according to our stats. If you find this post useful, please write a comment telling me more about how it is relevant to you in your world. I'd really like to know.]]></content>
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